What is your idea of a perfect marriage renewal ceremony? Would it be in a special place, on a specific day important to the two of you? Or would you sneak away without a plan? What role would you see for an officiant, for your children and/or grandchildren?  What would you say to each other during the ceremony?  Renewal vows may be entirely different from those you shared on your wedding day...or they may be exactly as they were that day. Whatever you both decide, be sure to celebrate the moment in a way that is meaningful to you both - celebrate the joys in your life and renew your commitment to one another.